3 First Date No-No's
Contrary to popular belief, the priority on a first
date should be more about not making a mistake rather
than making a good impression.
Face
it, the very fact that a guy asks you for a date means
you have already made a good impression.
Because of this, you don’t have to impress him;
rather, your main focus should be to NOT do these 3
things.
1)
Don’t
make suggestions, let him be in charge
Hopefully, you will never be in the position of having
a guy ask you for a date, and then show up at your
door and ask you the question every woman dreads, “So,
what would you like to do?”
To
be fair, the reason some guys do this is because they
are worried about planning something that you don’t
like. Rather than making a mistake in selecting the
activity, they instead choose to avoid the risk of
rejection.
Most, thankfully, know they need to plan the evening.
If, however, you are asked about your preference,
maintain your role as receptive female by saying, “I’m
not sure, what did you have in mind?”
This
will set the tone that HE is the man, and that it is
his job to plan an evening to please you.
Don’t worry about coming across as a snob, witch or
worse. If he is so insecure that he needs you to plan
the evening, good riddance. Better you discover this
about him now than later.
2)
Don’t pay for the meal
Regardless of what part of the world you live in,
nearly every man believes that a clear sign that a
woman is not interested is her insistence in paying
for her own meal.
Now,
many women have confided to me that they have offered
(insisted) to pay for their meal because they didn’t
want to give the impression that they were selfish.
While their intention is noble, men don’t view it that
way. Any first date is about a woman acting like a
woman, not an equal. Leave the concept of fair at your
work or school.
He
didn’t ask you out because he wanted to spend the
least amount of money possible.
On a
first date, a man is more concerned that he can please
you than he is about spending an extra $20-$50, I
promise.
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