3 Signs He's Interested
He Makes
Good Eye Contact
Since guys are visual, it goes without saying that
they stare at women whom they find attractive. This is
significant because, as a general rule of thumb, men
tend to avoid prolonged eye contact because of its
threatening nature (think Alpha Male stuff).
In addition, every man can tell you a story of some
woman he was nice to, who misinterpreted his kindness
as an indication of romantic interest. If you ask 100
men why they are so guarded about giving a woman the
wrong impression, the answer is simple, “Because she
might not leave.”
How to respond: When you
notice his gaze, simply smile back while maintaining
eye contact for a couple of seconds and then quickly
look away. This simple gesture is all the invitation
he’ll need to approach you.
He’ll Listen
to You
Need I mention that men hate being bored. Women don’t
prefer it, but men detest it. Nothing is more boring
to most men than being trapped in a conversation with
someone who doesn’t interest them.
If you were to ask how you can tell if you are the
woman who is holding him hostage, relax. Most men
won’t listen long enough for that to happen to you. If
he’s listening to you talk about your work, friends or
other interests for more than 5 minutes, he’s
interested in you.
How to Respond: Remember
that the person doing the talking is NOT in control.
The listener is in control. You want the conversation
centered on him so that you can begin training him to
be emotionally dependent on you.
Men always find women who listen to them to be
irresistible. When you are listening, be sure to make
eye contact with him occasionally. Most women can
easily do two things at once, so resist the urge to
listen and look elsewhere.
Without some eye contact, you may hear what he’s
saying, but you won’t look like you care.
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