First Date Magic for Women
At least
once a month one of my clients comes into my office upset about how her
date went the previous weekend. Either she feels she did something wrong
or worries that the guy didn't seem to be too interested in her.
For the
next 45 minutes we dissect the evening in question and I offer suggestions
on how to salvage a second date or I congratulate her on discovering that
he wasn't worth another chance.
Many times though the problem lies with my
client not understanding the purpose of a first date. Too often women
(and men) concentrate on such things has compatibility, attraction and
past relationship history.
All of these things are important but not
for a first encounter. They are too in-depth for a casual
get-to-know-you conversation.
The only thing a woman really
needs to be concerned with is conveying her femininity. This is the
easiest and most reliable way toward making a good first impression.
The
three keys to a great first date are; wear a dress,
smile often and allow
him to speak first at the start of the date. Those three things will make
him feel masculine and he will naturally find you more attractive because
the first date is about being a girl, not revealing everything about
yourself.
If those
suggestions seem silly or sexist then I am afraid you don't understand
men. Men like women in dresses because it radiates softness making a man
want to hold and cuddle her.
Smiling at him always makes him feel more
self assured. Letting him speak first conveys respect which is every man's
greatest desire, even more than being loved. Show him that you have the
ability to be the woman he has fantasized about and he will beg you for
another date.
Once you have gone out 3 or more times then you are free to
let him get to know you has an individual. Since you have shown him that
you are every bit a woman, he will be much more motivated to get to know
you as a person.
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