Want to know what makes a man almost instantly attracted to you? Many women spend hours on finding the perfect clothing, putting on makeup and trying to obtain the perfect body in attempt to be what men want.
The problem with this kind of thinking is that men don't expect that from a woman. If given a choice they'll choose some features over others (blonde vs. brunett, However, more often than not, most women tend to make attraction far more they are attracting Mr. Wrong or no one at all, because they are only focusing on initial, external attraction.
Here are 3 things that will make any women more appealing to men without having to try and become perfect.
Several years ago a university conducted a study to find out wha quality made some women instantly appealing to men. They looked at body types, hair color and everythingn they could think of. What they discovered was that the most common attribute that made men see a woman as attractive was her smile.
It sounds simple, but it conveys confidence and kindness. For men, a woman who smiles often is approachable and inviting.
So often women dress in the latest fashion and forget what men find appealing. Please write this down, men are attracted to feminine - not fashion. Men really don't care what type of purse you have or if everyone in Paris would love your hair style. Which brings me to this point. Men like women in dresses.
I'm not saying they don't find a woman in pants pretty, it's that a dress is much more inviting to a man than slacks. You don't have to change your wardrobe, but try and keep in mind that men are very visual. Why not make that work to your advantage?
Have you ever seen a woman who was nice to all the guys. She seemed to treat the nerdy guys just as nicely as the studs. If you haven't noticed her, then I promise you men have. In addition, when you treat all men the same, it becomes much easier to "be yourself" when you meet a guy you're really interested in.
Most women are fearful that they'll get stuck with someone they don't like if they try this approach. It's true that you'll have to turn down a lot of men, but that's actually how it's suppose to work. When a woman is good at attracting men, she doesn't have the ability to turn it on and off.
She can't just attract the kind of guys she likes. When she has this magical quality that I describe in The Woman Men Adore e-book, her appeal is more like a camp fire. She simply glows and all kinds of men find her appealing. From all these men she then selects the one who is lucky enough to be chosen by her.