Bob Grant, L.P.C. is widely recognized as a leading expert on relationship advice.  As a professional Coach for over 16 years, he has helped hundreds of clients in goal achievement.  In addition to his hit book, “The Woman Men Adore…And Never Want To Leave.”  Bob has also been a frequent quest on the radio program, “Marriage and Family Today,” in Atlanta, Ga.

In His latest work, “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave.” Bob shows that when a woman learns to trust her heart, her natural ability to attract the man of her dreams is already in existence.  It isn’t something that she has to discover. 

His approach focuses on each person’s God given dreams and determines what they are or are not doing that is inhibiting the fulfillment of those desires.  With realistic encouragement and custom designed strategies, ever client is equipped to achieve and repeat their successes.

 

Bob Grant’s work has been praised by

Individuals and couples nationwide:

 

I remember all the things you told me and I apply all the things you taught me.  Thank you for all the help and I will always remember you and thank God that you were there.”-Kathy

I have been able to pass along your words to others-‘Listen to your heart-‘ I thank you for that privilege.  This is definitely a belated thanks to you for the time you spent with me and the encouragement you gave me last year!”-Cindy

My new wife and I are very happy.  I am grateful for all you have done for me.”-John

 

Bob has been responsible for countless marriages and relationships.  Since each client is unique, a personalized plan is designed for maximizing and enhancing a client’s strengths, and minimizing their weaknesses.  Acting as both a motivator and mentor, Bob’s goal is to help each individual acquire, develop and enhance their relationships!

In addition to being a published author and relationship expert, Bob is a professional Coach with office locations in Marietta, Calhoun and Canton Georgia.

TO BOOK AN INTERVIEW, CALL (404) 579-4437

 

Story Ideas

What do Men Want from women?

Nearly all female coaching client asks me at some point, “What Do Men Want?”  Most women work hard at trying to be the type of woman that their man.  What men want and what they think they want are often two different things.  A woman who puts her heart first and will always be more attractive than those are pleasers.  Will a man get angry at times?  Absolutely, but she instantly gains respect in his eyes and she becomes someone he can trust.  Men want someone who puts her heart before their man.  While most women fear this will lead to being labeled a “witch” or worse, done properly it is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

 

Understanding Men.

That men and women think differently is no great insight.  Grant explains in his just released book, “The Woman the Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave,” that men by their nature are completive and do not want to compete with the woman of their choice.  When a woman responds to a man in a confrontive style she inevitably causes her partner treat her like a man.  What is more effective is to respond to him through her feelings.   Once a woman learns that the male mind is by design competitive, she can then use this to her advantage and her partner’s. 

 

What every man adores in a woman

Every man knows the meaning of this phrase, “There’s something about her.”  While it means different things to different men it nevertheless brings a smile and a nod to every man.  That something is a woman who not only likes herself, but also is at ease around men.  When a woman is comfortable around a man it gives him the impression that she knows a secret worth pursuing.  It causes her to appear to be somewhat of a challenge, which appeals to a basic human need, namely we long for what we don’t think we can get and discard what comes easy.  Every man longs for a woman who is self confident and yet vulnerable enough to be engaging with a man in conversation.  Any woman that acts at ease around men will have an active social life or a devoted husband.  

 

Why men Cheat

Nearly all affairs begin months before the incident.  Men have affairs primarily because they are resentful.  This resentment usually takes months to develop into an affair and once it does it enables a man to justify betraying his wife.  Rarely, if ever, does a man go into a marriage with the intention of being unfaithful.  For him to cross that threshold of breaking his vows there must be a sense of injustice that he has suffered.  Though there is never a justification for Cheating, understanding the reason’s for an affair debunks the idea that they “just happen.”

  

What Men Crave and Women Need

Most women have no idea that the deepest desire of a man is to be trusted.  Being trusted means as much to a man has being loved does to a woman.  Yet many women have difficulty trusting their man to the degree that he desires.  Grant explains in his new book, “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave,” that a woman needs; 1) Him keeping his word and 2) His being safe when he gets angry.  Without these two ingredients it is virtually impossible for her to trust.  Women want to trust the man of their choice; they just need help from him to do so.

 

Husbands were meant to be trained

One of the most misunderstood principles between husbands and wives is that of equality.  Yes they both have the same value, but they derive it from different areas.  Men really don’t mind their wives influencing them, but what they hate is to be nagged in the process.  Every man hopes his wife will somehow know how to influence him in a way that is non-threatening.  Rather than consistently arguing, Grant reveals to women the power they already possess by responding to a man through her feelings.  Sometimes men respond favorably while other times they become angrier.  Regardless, when a woman persists she is destined to win for the simple reason that men cannot compete with a woman’s feelings.  This is why men prefer the intensity of battle to the exploration of their feelings.  The end result is a husband who has been trained to respond to his wife’s feelings.    

 

What makes a Woman Irresistible?  Simply putting her heart first.

Every woman has the ability to be irresistible yet few employ their God given talents and ability.  The biggest obstacle toward being attractive to men is trying to please everyone.  While it may keep the peace, it sends the impression that a woman is a doormat.  Since most women naturally give, Grant explains that by putting their heart first they are simply balancing out their tendency to give too much.  Putting her heart first may seem selfish, but it actually prevents her from giving too much and becoming tired. 

 

 

Forgiveness after an affair

Unless an individual understands the stages of forgiveness, getting over an affair can seem almost impossible.  Grant notes that the stages include; acknowledging the injury, giving up the idea of getting revenge, laying down your weapons and finally, grieves over the death of innocent trust.  As the victim of an affair the woman (or man) certainly has the right to terminate their marriage, yet if they choose to stay with their spouse they must forgive them or the marriage will never last.  Grant shows that while forgiveness is possible instantaneously, trusting their partner again will most certainly take time.   

 

Suggested Questions for Bob Grant, L.P.C. author of

The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave

 

What are the three most important things about your book?

How does, “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave” differ from other relationship books?

Give us a little background about your book.  What was involved in the writing of the book?  What led you to write it?

Some people feel threatened by the idea they may need to change, or feel they should be loved ‘just has they are’.  What would your comment be to this?

In your book you outline several relationship strategies.  Out of these which do you believe to be the most effective or powerful?

What is the answer to the age old question; What do men want?

In your book you say that men respond to Pain and Voids?

Who will benefit most from your book?

Why do you think women adapt to relationships?

What are the biggest mistakes women make when dating?

How did you make the miracle of becoming a writer happen?

Are you working on any other projects at this time?

How can people get your book? 

Simply visit www.relationshipheadquarters.com

 

To schedule an interview, call (404) 579-4437. Ask for Jill Menghini, Manager for RelationshipHeadquarters.com.