What Do Men Really Want?
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Allow me
to illustrate. Imagine someone told you that I was the meanest person they
had ever met. For months all you heard was how terrible I treated my
family and friends.
Then one
day you met me and during the course of our meeting you begin to notice
that I didn’t seem to be as horrible as you were led to believe. I
actually appeared to be rather pleasant.
Would
you change your entire opinion about me from one visit? Probably not!
However, if you saw me respond consistently with kindness and humility
over a period of weeks, your opinion of me would begin to change.
A
paradox has just been established. The kindness you have seen in me for
the last few weeks does not match what you have heard about me. All the
rumors of how mean I am begin to fade into darkness because of my
consistent actions.
Over
time what you see will replace most if not all of your concerns about my
character. Men, when the woman you love sees your words lining up with
your actions, trust will naturally follow. When you don’t keep your word
it causes your wife/girlfriend to become fearful.
From her
perspective, she has entrusted you with her Heart and WANTS to trust you.
She simply needs your help in giving you what you want.
Copyright by Bob Grant, L.P.C. 2004-2006 All rights reserved. No part of this
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