If you look at any men’s website or advice magazine, you’ll read how men dream about a woman who is….”easy going, positive and upbeat.”
While I don’t doubt the sincerity of those men who dream of such a woman, there’s one problem: They’re flat WRONG. Now don’t get me wrong; it’s not that those things aren’t appealing, but those qualities won’t make a man’s heart race when he’s within 3 feet of you.
As strange as this might sound, when you give a man everything he says he wants – it actually makes him think you’re weak and PITIFUL. If that sounds weird to you…
You Need To Know This Secret About Men:
What they say they want and what they want are 2 entirely different things.
This is why a woman who caters to a man’s every wish is shocked when he tells her, “I’m sorry but it just isn’t working out.”
Most women are naturally giving. It feels wonderful to do something for the man they love, but here’s a secret you must understand: Giving is Masculine while Receiving is Feminine.
If you give more to a man than you receive back from him, even though he tells you that’s what he wants, it’s only a matter of time before you fall into…
The Giving Pit
This is where you give and give just hoping he’ll see how lucky he is to have you in his life. Yet, once you start putting his needs above yours, he’ll start to feel that it’s your job to keep him happy. Before long he’ll start to feel like you’re his MOTHER.
So what do men really want in a woman? I’m going to share with you something that is counter intuitive to everything even men tell you they want in a woman. The real secret to stirring up a man’s passion for you is located within your heart right now.
Your Emotions Can Mesmerize A Man
The #1 thing that will stir up the passion that’s locked away deep inside a man’s heart is your emotions. Now in saying that, please be careful: If you simply start sharing all of your feelings with a man, you’ll likely overwhelm him or worse – turn him off completely.
But when you use your feelings the right way, you’ll notice men looking at you differently and leaning closer to you when you talk. It’s not because of some “magic words” you’ve learned but because they can FEEL you.
Because every man WANTS you to melt his heart. In fact, sometimes a woman actually sends a man the wrong signals, without even realizing it. Instead of allowing her emotions to draw a man closer, she inadvertently repels him when she guards her heart.
But what if you could you could use your emotions to make his heart race every time you stepped into the room? What would be different if you had the campfire effect on men?