I know it's confusing trying to figure out men. The truth is that we really don't use as much of our brains when it comes to relationships like women do. We get accused of being mean, selfish and rude (well men can actually be all of these), but in reality many times it's simply because men are clueless. This is why there are books out there that say propose helping women with titles like Capture His Heart. When I speak with women they learn pretty early that I'm pro Man (uh, male species). Rather than complaining about men, wouldn't it just be easier to understand what makes men work and use it to your advantage? The women who have taken me up on this are the ones who write me thank you letters and some have even invited me to their weddings.